why do i keep talking about this???

Something that I found:

Cheating is selfishness. You care more about your own desires and wants and needs than that of the other person. You love yourself more than the other person and so its about you and your needs which isn't what a true relationship should be about.. Yes you have needs and there should be that aspect in the realtionship but it should only be an aspect not the primary...

The other thing is in long relationship many will at one time fall out of love or have problems or needs they don't address and so the easier thing its to get all those from another source than working threw those issues with your parner. The later to me is there reason for so many divorces because instead of working threw the problems and growing as a couple you give up and start a new relationship...

It's so selfish.