it's for them

Y: you know that planning your wedding is not for you. It's for them (the parents)

Lucy: uh. okay... *fearful face* (...thinking to myself.. did I just hear what she said...)

I know I'm not the 'traditional' asian chick. But to hear a pretty traditional asian girl say this to me.. scared me shitless. I'm so used to what my other 'americanized' friends tell me... to get a whole different perspective from someone that's 2 years younger than me. whoa.

It just hits me to the fact of my wedding and marriage is for my own happiness. If the family joins in on the happiness that makes it all more wonderful.. but if not then I still have to do what I feel is right for me. Who's living my life anyways.

Me.