Bridesmaid Dresses

I found a decent looking bridesmaid dress for pretty cheap. Only problem...can't figure out how to coordinate the wedding color scheme...

I wanted a soft red and chocolate brown color scheme...
Here's light brown:

and here's scarlet

Dilemma... if I pick brown... do the guys wear brown ties?... but then if the girls are wearing brown and the guys are wearing brown... where would the red tie into this?

argh. I hate colors